Nollywood actress, Funke Adesinyan has turned a marriage counselor lately.
Single and reputed to have once dated Saheed Balogun, she has been proffering advice to women on her Instagram page for a while now.
To the actress, no woman should crucify a cheating husband or attempt to walk out of the marriage. Why?
She said, “Leaving a man because he cheats is like relocating from Nigeria to America because of rain. News flash: it rains everywhere. Find a good man who loves you and appreciates you. Every other thing can be worked on. Men are naturally born to cheat. Look beyond this flaw and focus on how he treats you.” (sic)
That was the initial post. Then, a handful of women condemned her post citing the numerous disadvantages of a promiscuous partner—infections, HIV, premature death and more.
The women went on to cast aspersions on her for promoting adultery.
Five hours after the post, she maintained her stance on why men who cheat shouldn’t be seen as bad—they validate their manliness that way!
Funke, who is a farmer and also an astute politician, wrote:
“Good morning guys. I read many comments from my last post and I couldn’t stop laughing. It’s funny that it’s women who are answering for their men that the men don’t cheat on them. My sisters, let the men answer for themselves. The truth is a bitter pill to swallow. You cannot answer for people. I stand by my position 100%. I know that as a modern woman, we aim to break away from the norm and be as westernised as possible but believe me, it happens everywhere. It’s only those who got caught that are referred to as offenders. Not many men can sincerely say they have been with only their partner for 10yrs without “playing”. It doesn’t make them bad people, it just makes them men.
#factfile #nofilter #skingoals.” (sic)