Dear Kemi,
I am 27 years and I dated
a girl for about two years. She broke up with me because she wanted to be
serious with her studies. I had her sister’s contact while we were dating and
she knew about it. But after calling it quits with her, I began chatting with
the elder sister on the phone and we became very friendly with each other. Then,
I still added her on my Blackberry and this made us chat regularly; she even
used my picture as her display picture a couple of times. I feel that I love
her but I don’t know how to tell her about it. I dated her sister and don’t
know if our friendship is going to end when I eventually ask her out. I want to
know if it is wrong to date the sister of my ex girlfriend. What should I do?
a girl for about two years. She broke up with me because she wanted to be
serious with her studies. I had her sister’s contact while we were dating and
she knew about it. But after calling it quits with her, I began chatting with
the elder sister on the phone and we became very friendly with each other. Then,
I still added her on my Blackberry and this made us chat regularly; she even
used my picture as her display picture a couple of times. I feel that I love
her but I don’t know how to tell her about it. I dated her sister and don’t
know if our friendship is going to end when I eventually ask her out. I want to
know if it is wrong to date the sister of my ex girlfriend. What should I do?
P.O,
Lagos
Kemi advises:
It’s wrong
to ask her sister out. Are you sure she knew you dated her younger sister? If
she does, I don’t see why she should be splashing your pictures on her
Blackberry. In no time, I am sure a war will start among sisters just because
of you. Please be careful before you end up in trouble with this family.
to ask her sister out. Are you sure she knew you dated her younger sister? If
she does, I don’t see why she should be splashing your pictures on her
Blackberry. In no time, I am sure a war will start among sisters just because
of you. Please be careful before you end up in trouble with this family.
