Nollywood Yoruba actor Lolade Mustapha Sholagbade aka Lolly Boy was a live-in lover to make-up artist/actress, Dewunmi Fatai. They had a boy, Ramadan who is now three years old but the relationship crashed—they never wedded.
Now married to another woman, its obvious Mustapha can’t go back to Dewunmi.
Moreover, the relationship between the two is so frosty and they have had one or two spats on social media.
The single mum, Dewunmi, who seems to have accepted her fate wrote on life as a single mum on Instagram recently: “My WCE goes TO every single mum out there doing Good by themselves this post is for you ……You are indeed wonderful and I pray God continues to perfect all that concerns you …..
Being a single parent atimes is/isn’t by choice?
Most of us are forced because of one circumstance or the other …..
I have always wanted a home with a cool, calm and God-chosen husband around me but it didn’t happen the way I planned but God gave me a cute son and Being a single mum has made me a Superwoman,
I became stronger and more matured as a single mum
I learned to love myself and my son knowing we are all that we have………
We all have our stories to tell and mine is for another day ……..
I don’t know God’s plan for my future but I know he is indeed merciful so my future is a fulfilled one …….
Pls if u don’t know anything about me don’t come to my page and write whatsoever so you wont see the wrath of God…..
Oh yes i am single mum Keeping things low, praying and working hard for the future of my son and if God’s says yes I will be lucky to have a home in the future am ready ……….Pls respect yourself and stay away from me if you are MAD.
Thank u ??
Signed
ADEWUMI FATAI
A makeup artist ,event planner ,actor and producer ❤❤”
Meanwhile, as their son celebrated his third birthday recently, the two parents had different celebrations and photo shoots.
WHile Dewunmi and her mum had theirs with the baby, Yasir, Mustapha also had another photo session which he posted on Instagram.
Mustapha’s affair with Dewunmi went sour while living together but they later separated. According to Mustapha, he was not only tired of the relationship; his babymama was always raining curses on him and his mother!
He also alleged she left with the baby when he was just 41 days old.
He said among other things, “At a time, I told her to stop posting the photos of my son on social media or parties and her response was what is my business with that, she said she can take my son to her own boyfriend’s house! I was shocked but it is normal. It’s just that it is too early to start doing such when our child is not even up to 6 months.”