to be because my husband’s ex lovers still ask him for money, visit him in the
office and call his phone.
I am 27 and got married
three years ago. We have three children. My marriage is not what I expected it
to be because my husband’s ex lovers still ask him for money, visit him in the
office and call his phone. Though he does not pick their calls, he told me the
story of one of the ladies that came when I had my first baby. He asked for my
permission before she came and all through, she looked at him lustfully. I
thought that was the end of the affair but I kept seeing her calls on his phone
and when I asked him, he slapped me for the first time and warned me never to
touch his phone again. I am afraid that his past affairs could disturb our
marriage because he married me as a virgin.
I tried having a heart-to-heart talk with him but he flared up. What do
I do?
talking about them and hold your peace. Men exercise caution on extra-marital
affairs when their wives feign ignorance of their activities outside the home.
To have peace in your home, don’t discuss anything on these girls and stop
prying into his phone. Just pray that he gets tired chasing them. Also, make
him comfortable at home and stop nagging. I think your good character will draw
him nearer to you but farther away from those girls outside. In fact, the best
weapon is to make him believe that you trust him!